A Wonderful Dad
When I married that wonderful husband of mine,
there were some things I knew from the start.
I knew he was gentle and thoughtful and wise,
I knew that he had a big heart…
But I didn’t know all the things I know now,
all the tricks that he had up his sleeve.
All the toys he could fix, all the swings he could push,
all the ways he could make make-believe.
Now the more we’re together,
the more I can see just what very good fortune I’ve had…
When I married that wonderful husband of mine,
I sure married a wonderful dad!
–Author unknown
When I first read this poem I thought that I could not have said it better myself. I do not have one specific story to tell or anything extraordinarily heroic to say. To me, it is about all of the little “every day” things that make my husband the most wonderful “Dadda”. From the very day that we found out that I was pregnant, through pregnancy and with the birth of our son, Patrick has been the most loving, supportive and accommodating man. From reading to my pregnant belly to midnight feedings or soothing a colicy baby for hours on end, he has played a key role in our son’s life. Patrick definitely never took the backseat or secondary role in parenting—he is just as much of a “mommy” as I. I can even remember sometimes feeling ridiculously jealous of the strong bond between my husband and son, thinking, “Hey, I’m the mommy here!” He goes out of his way every day to ensure that our son has the very best of everything. What I love the most is that he emphasizes “quality over quantity”; meaning that he would rather spend quality time playing with our son than buy him toys to keep him occupied. He truly defines what a “family” means and what a real “man” should be. He has made so many changes in his own life to be a healthy and strong role model for our son.
Sometimes, I will just sit quietly and watch my husband and son play. The excitement in my son’s eyes when “Dadda is home!” The deep belly laughs that only Dadda can illicit from our son, the hours of laughter while playing “peek-a-boo” or roaring like a lion (even after working a midnight shift), make me realize what a wonderful Dadda I married. I am amazed every day at all of the time and effort that Patrick puts into teaching our son everything from his “ABC’s” to “right from wrong”. The love and patience that he portrays are but a few of his strongest characteristics. Often times, I feel as though my girlfriends do not believe me when I tell them some of the things that Patrick has done for our family and what an incredible father he truly is. I know that sometimes, with the fast pace of every day life, he may wonder if I take these things for granted, but I do not. I am so proud of the man that he is and could not have asked for a better man to be the father of my children. “Any man can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a Dadda”

Isn’t that the truth!
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